Your probably thinking to yourself, what a darn negative way to start an article… Assuming that most men will never be successful with women!? How dare I say such a thing..?
Well, let me explain…
In this day & age, at least %80 (keeping things conservative) of men that I personally know and meet have some kind of trouble when it comes to meeting, dating, and attracting great women… They simply don’t get it!
But, that is obviously not the main reason why they will probably never be truly successful when it comes to meeting and dating women, because everyone can improve if they really wanted to, right?
Here’s the thing though… Even though most men KNOW they could use some help, they still choose to refuse it, even when it is offered to them…
Funny, isn’t it? Perhaps men have this innate stubbornness about them, and their ego’s can’t admit that they could use some help, even when it is obvious that they could… Just like the man who would rather end up lost, than use a map.
I could relate to this, because I used to be that guy! The guy who pretended he had everything under control, when in reality I didn’t… And the worst part was, I was not only lying to the people around me, but more importantly, I was lying to myself!
This kind of thinking is dangerous, and is what sabotages most peoples chances of any success, in dating and in any other area of their lives…
The truth is, YOU DON’T LIKE CHANGE.
Most people don’t… It is easier to stay the same, than to change. It is easier to live in your “comfort zone” than it is to purposely get yourself out of it and grow – to improve.
This is probably the biggest frustration I have when it comes to wanting to help a man who doesn’t really want the help, even though he NEEDS it!
You can’t force change upon someone, but you CAN inspire change upon them. To inspire someone to look deep into themselves and ask “am I being honest with myself?”.
We humans don’t change until we make it a MUST… Until change is no longer a choice, but is the only option. Until we are SO SICK AND TIRED of living the way we are, and settling for less than we deserve… Only then can we truly begin the process of change. The process of becoming the kind of man that will meet, attract, and date the woman of your dreams…
I challenge you now, to GET REAL with yourself. To stand in front of a mirror, look yourself straight in the eye, and ask yourself these tough questions. Think of how your life will be 5 years, 10 years, 30 YEARS from now if you never get this area of your life handled..? My guess is, it will probably be similar to how it is now… DULL and empty.
There is more to life, and I want to share that with you…
NOW is the time to change your life for the better, and refuse to settle for less than you deserve. Commit yourself in this moment, to dedicating your life to constant-never-ending-improvement, in every aspect of you life, especially the area of meeting, attracting and dating women…
You don’t have to be tall, rich, handsome or famous to have a quality woman in your life… You simply have to be SICK & TIRED of being unsuccessful (make change a must… Not an option) and commit to improving your dating life NOW.
If you can do that, I will personally guarantee that you will become successful with women, in ways that you never imagined were possible, before you know it…
To begin your journey now, learn my Dating Tips For Men